Women Need to Have Higher Expectations for Men

Perhaps the reasons that men cheat even on the most beautiful women is because beauty alone, regardless of how much beauty, youth, etc. one has, is insufficient. Even the most beautiful of all women alive have been known to be abused. Something is missing. Perhaps what men want is to be fulfilled in a limitless way. There may be a way. It may be to provide men with their unconditional love. However this unconditional love would have to be authentic, namely it would have to be generated by UNLIMITED, instead of limited, gratitude

We all can have gratitude for something someone does or for something someone gives to us or we can be grateful if we are even able to do something for, or give something to, our self. But we usually take things for granted and need constant self and/or others' attention. If we are lacking in giving ourselves attention, or if the attention from others is lacking, we often choose, sometimes, to distract ourselves from feeling this lack of attention. (Of course while we sleep we give the BEST attention to ourselves, if we dream that is, Sleep is the best attention we or others can give us because sleep, dreaming especially REM states, energize us and this re-energizing is priceless.) While awake, and almost subconsciously, we provide for ourselves and/or our families by working. Sometimes, we may distract ourselves with daydreaming: anticipation of the future, memories of the past, or instead of or in addition to working we may go shopping and we may distract ourselves this way. Of course in addition to working, cooking, cleaning etc., we may use our energy to develop dramas and/or without awareness, we may even provoke others just in order to be distracted by what we subconsciously engineer TO occur.

Women could utilize their energies differently, (of course this means continuing to use ones most available energy to provide for ones and ones families' basic needs). Women could begin changing the world by setting up higher, or the highest expectations for men. For instance, as in the play Lysistrata, (where women went on strike, withholding sex, until men stopped going to war), all of us women could withhold all sexuality from all our men, until and unless all the men provided us women with a realistic utopia, where basic needs for all was a given. As a result, crime would be abolished, since all people would be provided with their basic needs. It would be reasonable then to expect that men could use their excess energy to seek unconditional love from women.

The women, for their part, would decide who to give their unconditional love to, based on which man provided the most just, the most fair community. Consequently, all men everywhere would be competing to show that he or his community provided more justice, ie less inequality, less crime etc., than the next community. In other words, men would band together to compete to make ever better and better, realistic Utopian communities, because the more Utopian the community, the more women would arrive with unconditional love that was generated due to the gratitude of being provided with better and better utopias.

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